Frengkie Budiman have COLON and LUNG CANCER. SPINAL CORD INJURY. TAIL BONE BROKEN. I URINATE CATHETER 6 TIMES A DAY. I POO through STOMAL BAG on TUMMY connected SMALL INTESTINE
Hi, I'm Frengkie Budiman. I have undergone 2 MAJOR SURGERIES at Royal Perth Hospital, Perth, Western Australia, on September 10, 2023 and July 10, 2024. I am DISABLED with the following conditions:
1. COLON RECTAL CANCER NEAR THE RECTAL RECTUM and LUNGS There is a TUMOR until now.
2. Operation July 10, 2024 Remove the TUMOR in the LARGE COLON and reconnect rejoin the LARGE COLON and have STOMA BAG on my STOMACH TUMMY. I DEFECATE through a STOMA BAG on my STOMACH in where inside have the SMALL INTESTINE comes out of the my STOMACH until now.
3. Operation September 10, 2023 My TAILBONE IS BROKEN. SPINE CORD INJURY. The doctor installed metal plates on the left and right sides to hold my spine. I URINATE using a CATHETER until now. Sleeping time I wake up three times to urinate use catheter until now.
4. My RIGHT HAND in the palm, fingers and arms are STIFF and LIMITED MOVEMENT and SWELLING and left and right LEGS are SWELLING until now.
5. CHEMOTHERAPY for 6 months. Every 2 weeks at Royal Perth hospital. Australia until now.
6. I AM A VICTIM OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE, NEGATIVE WORDS ABUSE, INSULTING, HARASSMENT, and BULLYING from my Wife and Mother-in-law. My LIFE IS VERY STRESSED UNDER PRESSURE. I paid a DEPOSIT TO BUY MY HOUSE AUD $ 80,000 AND I paid AUD $ 77,000 PERMANENT RESIDENTS AUSTRALIA my mother-in-law and father-in-law.
7. After the SURGERY on September 10, 2023 I BUY FOOD BY BUS, COOK and TAKE CARE OF MYSELF. My wife doesn't want to spend money to buy food for me. My wife and mother-in-law don't want to help me. NO ONE helps me. I CAN'T REST. Every day I AM VERY BUSY DEFECATE EMPTY AND CLEAN MY STOMA BAG AND URINATE WITH A CATHETER. I CAN'T REST until now.
8. I want to LIVE SEPARATELY from my wife and mother-in-law. I am DISABLED. I want to live in a NURSING HOME for my BODY, MIND, and SOUL RECOVERY. Above all, I love and want to see my CHILDREN GROW UP.
9. Problem my body weight going down. December 2023 at Fiona Stanley hospital my weight is 58 kg. Now my body weight is 42 kg. Doctor said I must eat more food ingredients protein.
10. Please HELP me. SAVE my LIFE. I ask for your prayers and support to raise awareness about domestic violence. If you would like to donate, I have also created a GoFundMe to help with my living expenses and to help me get out of my home and into a nursing home.
My GoFundMe website https://gofund.me/6b852bdf
Thank you so much for listening to my story and donating to me. It means a lot to me. I really appreciate your kindness and generosity. May God bless you and your family every day, always healthy, many blessings and long life.
My true story website https://8gofundme.blogspot.com.
My true story website https://expired-bread.blogspot.com
Warm regards
Frengkie Budiman
My mobile phone number WhatsApp is +61434265909. Thank you very much
Photo Monday November 18, 2024 Mrs Ade, the culinary entrepreneur of Indonesian meatballs and her son Mr Dzikra came to visit me at the Windsor Park nursing home in Carlisle, Western Australia.
Video Monday November 18, 2024 Mrs Ade, the culinary entrepreneur of Indonesian meatballs and her son Mr Dzikra came to visit me at the Windsor Park nursing home in Carlisle, Western Australia.
Video September , 25, 2024 Mrs Ade culinary meatballs entrepreneur Indonesian food with her son Mr Dzikra and Mr Udin come visit me at Armadale hospital in Perth western Australia.
Photo 16 October 2024 Mrs. Ade, the culinary entrepreneur of Indonesian meatballs, came with Mr. Umar from the Indonesian Consulate General to visit me at Armadale Hospital in Ward Canning Room 28 in Perth, Western Australia.
Video 16 October 2024 Mrs. Ade, the culinary entrepreneur of Indonesian meatballs, came with Mr. Umar from the Indonesian Consulate General to visit me at Armadale Hospital in Ward Canning Room 28 in Perth, Western Australia.
Photo September 27, 2024 Mrs. Ade culinary meatballs entrepreneur Indonesia food and her son Mr. Dzikra and Father Temi from Catholic church Pater Noster in Myaree in Perth come visit me at ICU Armadale hospital. Perth Western Australia.
Photo September 27, 2024 Mrs. Ade culinary meatballs entrepreneur Indonesia food and her son Mr. Dzikra and Father Temi from Catholic church Pater Noster in Myaree in Perth come visit me at ICU Armadale hospital in Perth Western Australia.
7 September 2023 morning I sick stomach swollen and feel and tails bone swollen and feel burning and leg left and right swollen and I cannot urinate normally and I cannot defecate normally. 7 September 2023 night I sleep in my car Mazda 323 made in 1991. My wife not bring me to hospital.
Photo my car Mazda 323 made in 1991.
8 September 2024 afternoon at 4 pm my church friend a couple grandmother ages 80 years old and grandfather ages 80 years old bring me to Armadale hospital. My wife not bring me tikoday hospital.
October 5, 2023 my wife come to Royal Perth hospital in Perth City Western Australia gave me expired bread September 1, 2023.
Video expired bread September 1, 2023.
Photo my X-ray result after surgery 10 September, 2023 at Royal Perth hospital in Perth City Western Australia . My tail bone broken. Spinal cord INJURY. Doctor put plat iron on left and right to hold my back bone. I disabled spinal cord injury. I cannot urinate normally. I urinate use CATHETER until now. Sleeping time I wake up three times for urinate use catheter. I Notice there sleep well. I cannot control urine come up out suddenly any time so I busy clean my clothes and clean untill now.
Photo my chateter and urine bottle that I use for urinate untill now.
Video MY STOMA BAG on MY STOMACH for DEFECATE until now. Inside Stoma Bag have SMALL INTESTINE red colour OUT FROM my STOMACH until now.
My right hand palm, finger and arm stiff and limited moving since September 21, 2024 until now.
Any questions please send messages SMS to Frengkie Mobile phone WhatsApp nomor +61434265909. Thanks you very much.
Hello my name is Frengkie Budiman. I am victim of domestic violence verbal abuse, insulting and bullying, under pressure stressful live from my wife and mother in law for many years so make me sick. I have 9 conditions are Colon Rectal Cancer, Spinal Cord Injury, my tail bone broken, my right hand palm, finger, and arm stiff and limited moving and swollen swelling and leg left and leg right swollen and my tail bone broken so I cannot urinate normally. I urinate use catheter and I DEFECATE from small intestine out from my stomach tummy inside stoma bag until now and I on going chemotherapy at Royal Perth hospital every 2 weeks until now . After I sick since September 7, 2023 at home No-one help me. No rest. I myself buy food by bus, cooking, take care by myself, empties and cleaning stoma bag for defecate and urinate use catheter many times a day and earlier morning I wake up three times for empties and cleaning stoma bag and urinate use catheter until now. Weight going down. Low blood pressure. Until now.
My future plans is living in nursing home. Thank you very much
My name is Frengkie Budiman – Victim of Domestic Violence Verbal Abuse, insulting and bullying from my wife and mother in law.
I am seeking help after years of mental, emotional and verbal abuse from my wife and mother-in-law since moving to Perth about 12 years ago. I feel isolated, facing constant verbal abuse and neglect until I am in this condition.
I am currently in Armadale Hospital since September 21, 2024 because my palm, and fingers and arm right hand stiff cannot moving and I dependent on hospital nurse helping empties and clean my stoma bag and empties urinate bag many times a day untill now. I have COLON RECTAL CANCER and LUNG have tumour. I am on going CHEMOTHERAPY for 6 months for every two weeks at Royal Perth hospital untill now. Two days before Chemotherapy I must take blood test at pathwest Armadale hospital and meet doctor oncology at Royal Perth hospital until now.
My wife not bring my 2 sons to see me. I miss my sons so much, and their absence adds to my sadness.
Over the years, I have been bullied, insulted and yelled at in front of my children. Despite being in a very weak condition—undergoing chemotherapy, recovering from major spinal surgery, and battling lung and bowel cancer—I have had to do everything on my own. I am forced to go out to buy groceries (walk to the bus stop, get on the bus and back home), cook my own food, and do household chores, because my wife and mother in law refuses to help me at all.
Now, I am starting to lose the ability to use my right hand, and if I go back home in this condition, I will not be able to survive. There is no one to take care of me, and I am expected to take care of everything on my own.
I believe in miracles and in the Lord, Jesus Christ. My hope is to get well and live in a nursing home, away from the abuse I have experienced for the past 10 years. Above all, I want to see my children grow up.
Please save my life. I don't want to live with my wife and my mother-in-law anymore. I need a bed for my body, mind and soul to recover. I need someone who can help me to urinate and defecate. I eat plant foods that are easy to chew Because my teeth are missing.
I ask for your prayers and support to raise awareness of domestic violence. If you would like to give me donations, I have also created a GoFundMe to help with my living expenses and help me get out of the house and live in an nursing home.
My GoFundMe website https://gofund.me/fbe6ca1f
Thank you for listening to my story and give donations to me. I really appreciate your kindness and generosity. God bless you and your family always healthy every day, Many abundant fortune every day and long life.
My website https://8gofundme.blogspot.com.
My website https://expired-bread.blogspot.com
Best regards
Frengkie Budiman
My mobile phone number WhatsApp is +61434265909. Thank you very much
Photo my right hand palm and finger stiff and limited moving and swollen
Photo October 2024 I was at Armadale hospital in Perth Western Australia.
I use chateter for urinate until now. Sleeping time I wake up three times for urinate use catheter until now. Not sleep well. I cannot control urine come out suddenly any time so I busy clean my clothes and clean floor. I urinate use catheter since September 10, 2023 I was surgery my TAIL BONE BROKEN. SPINAL CORD INJURY at Royal Perth hospital in Perth City Western Australia until now.
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10 July 2024 at the Royal Perth Hospital in the City of Perth Western Australia I had surgery for 6 hours to remove a 2 cm tumor in my LARGE INTESTINE and had my LARGE INTESTINE RECONNECTED AGAIN and a BAG was placed in my STOMACH which had my SMALL INTESTINE is OUT FROM MY STOMACH. I defecated many times through a BAG in my stomach where my SMALL INTESTINE is out from MY STOMACH. Every day
Every day I defecate many times from stoma bag on my stomach and many times I empties bag and clean stoma bag and urinate using catheter. Every earlier morning I wake up 2 times defecating from stoma bag in my stomach and I empties bag and clean stoma bag on my stomach and urinate using catheter until now. I buy my own food by bus to Woolworths and Coles and cook it myself. I take care of myself. Body weight going down weight loss. December 2023 at Fiona Stanley hospital my weight 58 kg. My weight now is 43 kg.
I still have a 7 mm tumor in my LUNGS until now. I have COLON RECTAL CANCER until now.
Photo my Centerlink medical certificate at 21 August 2024 from doctor oncology Dr Timothy Humphries at Royal Perth hospital in Perth City Western Australia.
Photo my letter of chemotherapy at 30 July 2024 from doctor oncology Dr Timothy Humphries at Royal Perth hospital in Perth City Western Australia.
Video I was at Royal Perth hospital in Perth City Western Australia I surgery 10 July 2024. Remove tumour in big colon and rejoin big colon and small intestine colon out from my stomach that inside stoma bag.
Video my stoma pouch (bag) have small intestine colon red colour out from my stomach.
Photo stoma bag I use on my STOMACH that have inside SMALL INTESTINE OUT from my STOMACH.
Photo my stoma bag on my STOMACH that is inside have my small intestine colon red colour out of my stomach.
Video my small intestine out of my stomach.
In my STOMACH there is a red object, that is the small intestine colon coming out from the STOMACH for defecation.
Photo, 12 August 2024 doctor at Armadale hospital put PICC line ( Peripherally Inserted Central Catheter) in my Left hand for infusion of chemotherapy for 6 months.
Photo PICC line ( Peripherally Inserted Central Catheter) in my Left hand for infusion of chemotherapy for 6 months.
Picture Results my MRI test page 1
Picture my CT scan results
September 10, 2023 at the Royal Perth Hospital in the City of Perth in Western Australia I had surgery for MY BROKEN TAILBONE. SPINE INJURIES. INSTALL IRON PLATES on the left and right to hold my spine. My bladder nervous system injury. I URINATE WITH A CATHETER EVERY 4 HOURS 6 TIMES A DAY.
Photo my X-ray result at Royal Perth hospital in Perth City Western Australia. I had Surgery my tail bone broken. Spine cord injury. I had operation surgery on 10 September 2023. I was for 3 months at 3 different hospital is Armadale hospital, Royal Perth hospital and Fiona Stanley hospital from 8 September 2023 until 21 December 2023.
Photo my back body that surgery 10 September 2023.
Photo I was at Fiona Stanley hospital in Perth Western Australia from 16 October 2023 until 21 December 2023.
5 October 2023 my wife come to Royal Perth hospital in Perth City Western Australia gave me expired bread September 1, 2023. Website https://expired-bread.blogspot.com
Photo expired bread September 1, 2023
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Video expired bread September 1, 2023.
I am 55 year old Frengkie Budiman and I am facing the toughest battles of my life.
I have been abused for over 12 years by my wife and mother-in-law.
I constantly received verbal abuse and harassment, which caused my mental condition to worsen. When hurt and mentally abused. This ultimately took its toll on me as I have now been diagnosed with Colon and Lung Cancer.
I am forced to do physical work at home despite having just had major surgery on my broken tailbone (spinal cord injury) last September (i.e. my Mother-in-Law forced me to clean the toilet after my surgery), and if I go against it, I will be bombarded again with insults and verbal abuse that my brain can no longer accept.
I wish I could fight back or fight back but I can't because I have been mentally hurt since day one and my mind has been damaged forever from receiving daily verbal abuse from them especially in front of 2 sweet boys. Sometimes I think even dogs or cats are treated so much better than me.
I buy food for myself by myself by bus and I cook for myself by myself. I take care myself by myself.
Now I have been diagnosed with lung and colon rectal cancer and I really need your support.
I had nothing left – no house, no possessions, and no financial security.
My body and mind have been damaged by constant abuse and harassment:
1. I underwent surgery for a broken tailbone (spinal cord injury) last September.
2. I can't urinate normally - I urinate use a catheter every 4 hours 6 times a day. Earlier morning I wake up twice for URINATE use CATHETER.
3. Because of my colon cancer, the doctor had to cut my big intestine and put it back together. I now defecate through a stomal pouch in my stomach that is have my small intestine out of stomach.
4. I also have lung cancer.
5. And the worst - my 2 boys who have been told by their mother and grandmother about how bad or useless I am as their father.
Despite these challenges, I remain determined to fight for my health and future to accompany my two sons.
I can't do it alone. I need your help to cover the costs of medical care, living expenses, and rebuilding my life.
Your donation will go directly to:
- Cancer treatments and medical bills.
- Rent and utilities for a safe place to live.
- Food and basic necessities.
- Legal fees to protect myself from further harassment.
Any contribution, big or small, you can make via the GoFundMe site https://gofund.me/f512d5c7, will give me hope and help me get back on my feet. Your kindness and support means a lot to me.
Thank you so much for taking the time to read my story. Please share this page https://8gofundme.blogspot.com with your loved ones and friends and let's fight cancer and abuse together.
If you would like to come to see me to see the POUCH in my STOMACH which is my SMALL INTESTINE OUT of my STOMACH could you please call or SMS first to Frengkie Budiman's mobile number +61434265909. Thank you very much.
Picture Results my MRI test page 1
Picture my CT scan results
September 10, 2023 at the Royal Perth Hospital in the City of Perth in Western Australia I had surgery for MY BROKEN TAILBONE. SPINE INJURIES. INSTALL IRON PLATES on the left and right to hold my spine. My bladder nervous system injury. I URINATE WITH A CATHETER EVERY 4 HOURS 6 TIMES A DAY.
Photo my X-ray result at Royal Perth hospital in Perth City Western Australia. I had Surgery my tail bone broken. Spine cord injury. I had operation surgery on 10 September 2023. I was for 3 months at 3 different hospital is Armadale hospital, Royal Perth hospital and Fiona Stanley hospital from 8 September 2023 until 21 December 2023.
Photo my back body that surgery 10 September 2023.
Photo I was at Fiona Stanley hospital in Perth Western Australia from 16 October 2023 until 21 December 2023.
5 October 2023 my wife come to Royal Perth hospital in Perth City Western Australia gave me expired bread September 1, 2023. Website https://expired-bread.blogspot.com
Photo expired bread September 1, 2023
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Video expired bread September 1, 2023.
I am 55 year old Frengkie Budiman and I am facing the toughest battles of my life.
I have been abused for over 12 years by my wife and mother-in-law.
I constantly received verbal abuse and harassment, which caused my mental condition to worsen. When hurt and mentally abused. This ultimately took its toll on me as I have now been diagnosed with Colon and Lung Cancer.
I am forced to do physical work at home despite having just had major surgery on my broken tailbone (spinal cord injury) last September (i.e. my Mother-in-Law forced me to clean the toilet after my surgery), and if I go against it, I will be bombarded again with insults and verbal abuse that my brain can no longer accept.
I wish I could fight back or fight back but I can't because I have been mentally hurt since day one and my mind has been damaged forever from receiving daily verbal abuse from them especially in front of 2 sweet boys. Sometimes I think even dogs or cats are treated so much better than me.
I buy food for myself by myself by bus and I cook for myself by myself. I take care myself by myself.
Now I have been diagnosed with lung and colon rectal cancer and I really need your support.
I had nothing left – no house, no possessions, and no financial security.
My body and mind have been damaged by constant abuse and harassment:
1. I underwent surgery for a broken tailbone (spinal cord injury) on September 10, 2023.
2. I can't urinate normally - I urinate use a catheter until now. Earlier morning I wake up three times for URINATE use CATHETER until now.
3. Because of my colon cancer, the doctor had to cut my big intestine and put it back together. I now defecate through a stomal pouch in my stomach that is have my small intestine out of stomach until now.
4. I also have tumor in my lung until now.
5. And the worst - my 2 boys who have been told by their mother and grandmother about how bad or useless I am as their father.
Despite these challenges, I remain determined to fight for my health and future to accompany my two sons.
I can't do it alone. I need your help to cover the costs of medical care, living expenses, and rebuilding my life.
Your donation will go directly to:
- Cancer treatments and medical bills.
- Rent and utilities for a safe place to live.
- Food and basic necessities.
- Legal fees to protect myself from further harassment.
Any contribution, big or small, you can make via the GoFundMe site https://gofund.me/f512d5c7, will give me hope and help me get back on my feet. Your kindness and support means a lot to me.
Thank you so much for taking the time to read my story. Please share this page https://8gofundme.blogspot.com with your loved ones and friends and let's fight cancer and abuse together.
If you would like to come to see me to see the POUCH in my STOMACH which is my SMALL INTESTINE OUT of my STOMACH could you please call or SMS first to Frengkie Budiman's mobile number +61434265909. Thank you very much.
