My priest gave me this paper Elder Abuse phone line and MenLine. He know I am victim of domestic violence from my wife and mother in law.
14 September 2024 at mass 6.30 pm I went Catholic St. Francis Xavier church. After finished mass priest name Father Mark (Australian gentlemen priest ) gave me this paper written down about Elder Abuse phone line number and Mens Line phone number.
21 September 2024 I went Armadale hospital my right hand palm , finger and arm stiff limited moving. One week later my right hand palm , finger and arm stiff limited moving and swollen and my leg left and right swollen until now.
Hi, I'm Frengkie Budiman. I have undergone 2 MAJOR SURGERIES at Royal Perth Hospital, Perth, Western Australia, on September 10, 2023 and July 10, 2024. I am DISABLED with the following conditions:
1. COLON CANCER NEAR THE ANUS and LUNGS There is a TUMOR.
2. Operation July 10, 2024 Remove the TUMOR in the COLON and reconnect the COLON. I DEFECATE through a STOMA BAG on my STOMACH in where the SMALL INTESTINE comes out of the my STOMACH.
3. Operation September 10, 2023 My TAILBONE IS BROKEN. SPINE INJURY. The doctor installed metal plates on the left and right sides to hold my spine. I URINATE using a CATHETER every 4 hours 6 times a day.
4. My RIGHT HAND in the palm, fingers and arms are STIFF and LIMITED MOVEMENT and SWELLING and left and right LEGS are SWELLING.
5. CHEMOTHERAPY for 6 months. Every 2 weeks at Royal Perth hospital. Australia.
6. I AM A VICTIM OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE, NEGATIVE WORDS ABUSE, INSULTING, HARASSMENT, BULLYING from my Wife and Mother-in-law. My LIFE IS VERY STRESSED UNDER PRESSURE. I paid a DEPOSIT TO BUY MY HOUSE AUD $ 80,000 AND I paid AUD $ 77,000 PERMANENT RESIDENTS AUSTRALIA my mother-in-law and father-in-law.
7. After the SURGERY on September 10, 2023 I BUY FOOD BY BUS, COOK and TAKE CARE OF MYSELF. My wife doesn't want to spend money to buy food for me. My wife and mother-in-law don't want to help me. NO ONE helps me. I CAN'T REST. Every day I AM VERY BUSY DEFECATE EMPTY AND CLEAN MY STOMA BAG AND URINATE WITH A CATHETER. I CAN'T REST.
8. I want to LIVE SEPARATELY from my wife and mother-in-law. I am DISABLED. I want to live in a NURSING HOME for my BODY, MIND, and SOUL RECOVERY. Above all, I love and want to see my CHILDREN GROW UP.
9. Problem my body weight going down. December 2023 at Fiona Stanley hospital my weight is 58 kg. Now my body weight is 42 kg. Doctor said I must eat more food ingredients high protein.
10. Please HELP me. SAVE my LIFE. I ask for your prayers and support to raise awareness about domestic violence. If you would like to donate, I have also created a GoFundMe to help with my living expenses and to help me get out of my home and into a nursing home.
My GoFundMe website https://gofund.me/fbe6ca1f
Thank you so much for listening to my story and donating to me. It means a lot to me. I really appreciate your kindness and generosity. May God bless you and your family every day, always healthy, many blessings and long life.
My true story website https://8gofundme.blogspot.com.
My true story website https://expired-bread.blogspot.com
Warm regards
Frengkie Budiman
My mobile phone number WhatsApp is +61434265909. Thank you very much
Photo my right hand palm , finger and arm stiff limited moving and swollen.
Photo my leg left and right swollen untill now.
Photo My stoma bag on my stomach for defecate. My small intestine red colour out from my stomach. Every day many times I empties and cleaning my stoma bag in during day and when sleeping time. When sleeping time I late empties stoma bag so leaking on bed and my clothes. I busy clean bed and clean my clothes . Not sleep well. Every 2 days I change new stoma bag.
