Photo my stoma bag on my stomach for defecate. Inside my stoma bag have small intestine colon come out from my stomach tummy.
Video my stoma bag on my stomach for defecate. Inside my stoma bag have small intestine colon come out from my stomach tummy.
Hi, I'm Frengkie Budiman. I have undergone 2 MAJOR SURGERIES at Royal Perth Hospital, Perth, Western Australia, on September 10, 2023 and July 10, 2024. I am DISABLED with the following conditions:
1. COLON CANCER NEAR THE ANUS and LUNGS There is a TUMOR.
2. Operation July 10, 2024 Remove the TUMOR in the COLON and reconnect the COLON. I DEFECATE through a STOMA BAG on my STOMACH in where the SMALL INTESTINE comes out of the my STOMACH.
3. Operation September 10, 2023 My TAILBONE IS BROKEN. SPINE INJURY. The doctor installed metal plates on the left and right sides to hold my spine. I URINATE using a CATHETER every 4 hours 6 times a day. 4. My RIGHT HAND in the palm, fingers and arms are STIFF and LIMITED MOVEMENT and SWELLING and left and right LEGS are SWELLING.
5. CHEMOTHERAPY for 6 months. Every 2 weeks at Royal Perth hospital. Australia.
6. I AM A VICTIM OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE, NEGATIVE WORDS INSULTING, HARASSMENT, BULLYING from my Wife and Mother-in-law. My LIFE IS VERY STRESSED UNDER PRESSURE. I paid a DEPOSIT TO BUY MY HOUSE AUD $ 80,000 AND I paid AUD $ 77,000 PERMANENT RESIDENTS AUSTRALIA my mother-in-law and father-in-law.
7. After the SURGERY on September 10, 2023 I BUY FOOD BY BUS, COOK and TAKE CARE OF MYSELF. My wife doesn't want to spend money to buy food for me. My wife and mother-in-law don't want to help me. NO ONE helps me. I CAN'T REST. Every day I AM VERY BUSY DEFECATE EMPTY AND CLEAN MY STOMA BAG AND URINATE WITH A CATHETER. I CAN'T REST.
8. I want to LIVE SEPARATELY from my wife and mother-in-law. I am DISABLED. I want to live in a NURSING HOME for my BODY, MIND, and SOUL RECOVERY. Above all, I love and want to see my CHILDREN GROW UP.
9. Problem my body weight going down. December 2023 at Fiona Stanley hospital my weight is 58 kg. Now my body weight is 42 kg. Doctor said I must eat more food ingredients protein.
10. Please HELP me. SAVE my LIFE. I ask for your prayers and support to raise awareness about domestic violence. If you would like to donate, I have also created a GoFundMe to help with my living expenses and to help me get out of my home and into a nursing home.
My GoFundMe website https://gofund.me/fbe6ca1f
Thank you so much for listening to my story and donating to me. It means a lot to me. I really appreciate your kindness and generosity. May God bless you and your family every day, always healthy, many blessings and long life.
My true story website https://8gofundme.blogspot.com.
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Warm regards
Frengkie Budiman
My mobile phone number WhatsApp is +61434265909. Thank you very much
Photo my chateter I urinate
Video my chateter I urinate use catheter.
I surgery September 10, 2023 at Royal Perth hospital my tail bone broken. Spinal spine cord injury. Doctor put plat iron on left side and right side to hold my back bone. I urinate use catheter since September 8, 2023. I urinate use catheter every 4 hours 6 times a day. Earlier morning I wake up twice for urinate use catheter.
Photo my right hand palm finger and arm stiff limited moving and swollen swelling.
Hello my name is Frengkie Budiman. I am victim of domestic violence verbal abuse, insulting and bullying, under pressure stressful live from my wife and mother in law for many years so make me sick. I have 6 conditions are Colon Rectal Cancer, Spinal Cord Injury, my tail bone broken, my right hand palm, finger, and arm stiff and limited moving and swollen swelling and leg left and leg right swollen and my tail bone broken so I cannot urinate normally. I urinate use catheter and I DEFECATE from From small intestine out from my stomach tummy inside stoma bag and I on going chemotherapy at Royal Perth hospital every 2 weeks. After I sick since September 7, 2023 at home No-one help me. No rest. I myself buy food by bus, cooking, take care by myself, empties and cleaning stoma bag for defecate and urinate use catheter many times a day and earlier morning I wake up twice for empties and cleaning stoma bag and urinate use catheter.
My future plans is living in nursing home. Thank you very much
My name is Frengkie Budiman – Victim of Domestic Violence
I am seeking help after years of mental, emotional and verbal abuse from my wife and mother-in-law since moving to Perth about 12 years ago. I feel isolated, facing constant verbal abuse and neglect until I am in this condition.
I am currently in Armadale Hospital since September 21, 2024 because my palm, and fingers and arm right hand stiff cannot moving and I dependent on hospital nurse helping empties and clean my stoma bag and empties urinate bag many times a day. I have COLON RECTAL CANCER. I am on going CHEMOTHERAPY for 6 months for every two weeks at Royal Perth hospital. Two days before Chemotherapy I must take blood test at pathwest Armadale hospital and meet doctor oncology at Royal Perth hospital.
My wife not bring my 2 sons to see me. I miss my sons so much, and their absence adds to my sadness.
Over the years, I have been bullied, insulted and yelled at in front of my children. Despite being in a very weak condition—undergoing chemotherapy, recovering from major spinal surgery, and battling lung and bowel cancer—I have had to do everything on my own. I am forced to go out to buy groceries (walk to the bus stop, get on the bus and back home), cook my own food, and do household chores, because my wife refuses to help me at all.
Now, I am starting to lose the ability to use my right hand, and if I go back home in this condition, I will not be able to survive. There is no one to take care of me, and I am expected to take care of everything on my own.
I believe in miracles and in the Lord, Jesus Christ. My hope is to get well and live in a nursing home, away from the abuse I have experienced for the past 10 years. Above all, I want to see my children grow up.
Please save my life. I don't want to live with my wife and my mother-in-law anymore. I need a bed for my body, mind and soul to recover. I need someone who can help me to urinate and defecate. I eat plant foods that are easy to chew Because my teeth are missing.
I ask for your prayers and support to raise awareness of domestic violence. If you would like to give me donations, I have also created a GoFundMe to help with my living expenses and help me get out of the house and live in an nursing home.
Thank you for listening to my story and give donations to me. I really appreciate your kindness and generosity. God bless you and your family always healthy every day, Many abundant fortune every day and long life.
Best regards
Frengkie Budiman
My mobile phone number WhatsApp is +61434265909. Thank you very much
Any questions please send message to Frengkie Mobile phone WhatsApp number is +61434265909. Thank you very much
